Mikeys N Brian's Wedding

Last Saturday was one lovely day, the sun was out and warm. Maybe slightly too warm and emotional day but that was perfect for weddings. As the 3 Musketeers reunites, Deborah and Fatima picked me up and we vroomed to the city. It was funny we walked at the wrong side from where we parked the car, we most definitely could not read the map right. We were blabbing wanting to catch up, look at time! 15 minutes til the wedding starts so we hailed the cab, just 3 blocks, haha.

The wedding was located close to Boston Public Park and the city was so lively, everyone was out to enjoy the day. It was about 60 of us, we sat close to each others as we witnessed Mikey n Brian love for each others. I was deeply touched when Brain said his vows, tears shred around the room, and when Mikeys said his vows it was like I already knew what he was going to say. But as for one thing I learned from them and their words to vow their love for each others for lifetime, I never really knew what it means to get married or to be married.

Of course, there came hugs and celebrations. I know I drank and ate plenty. It was especially soo good seeing Fatima and Deborah, we worked together and we were there for each others. I think it was most likely how it worked for 3 of us: Deborah fed us, Fatima watched our back, and I speak their minds. Heheh. Good ol' days.

I think Mikey and Brian are truly blessed, watching their families together sharing love and joy celebrating their marriage. I guess it what their wedding meant, having families together to accept and support their love.

Soo here's pictures!!! Not many people see this blog, but it's like I'm writing this to remember everything.


I don't have many good pictures during the wedding, my camera is getting old and there was bright light coming from the windows but heres Mikey and Brian..


and their beautiful cake! Gawd! Purple is Brian's favorite color and Green is Mikey's..


The 3 Musketeers!


I like this picture of Fatima, heheh


Lil ol' me


The Happy Husbands are next 2 from my right


The famous Boston public park but I didn't want to stand still and pose too long!

Green flowers

As I am trying to feel better, I had extra of sleep yesterday (Monday) thinking that Jax would come home. New plans, Lucas grandmother is back from Brazil so she is able to be with him on Wednesday. Whew big time! I won't miss class as of this week. But Jax is gone from Sunday to Wednesday night, mmm, ok..

And then I'm wanting to get me a dress for Mikey's wedding on Saturday. How can I say no to Lucas when he offered to take me to shopping? So I drove all the way back to Frammy, just two of us went shopping as Jax went to the movie with Vovo and saw Shriek 3 (drats, beat me). I think Lucas wanted to take me to shopping so that he can SPOIL himself. I am proud that he's making money, deserve all what he wanted, but damn he is really spoiling himself!

Finally my turn we looked for dresses at Macy's (nothing at Marshall's). I think I'm stuck between 20s and 30s or something, some dresses are too sexy and flashy as 20 years olds and some are too plain as 30 years olds. I think I'm getting older that I become more and more picky! I finally found this dress, it's got green flowers. Mikey's favorite color!

Well I didn't find shoes to wear it with. Back to Margo's house, Lucas' grandmother was there she said she got shoes and jewelries for me to borrow. I'll try not to dress as famous and fancy as Brazilian ladies!

Soo I'm still at Margo's using the internet pretending I'm doing school work. I'm taking this class Medical Ethics and we had a quiz last Monday on case study. I could not believe it. The questions went like:

Should people with disabilities be allowed to increase their chances of producing a child with a disability when articial means are used?

If we refuse to accept this case, will we be saying in general that people who have a handicap should not reproduce?

How can deaf parents that feel more comfortable in the deaf world comfortably raise a hearing child?

and so on. We will discuss these case study tmw (Wednesday). Any thoughts??

past week..

Last weekend I had time off for the first time in forever, Sarah, Deb, and I went barshopping around Salem. But we probably had more fun being silly at my house all the night. I'd post the picture. And on Sunday I let them to take me to bbq party. I have not seen as many deafies at one place for a long time. It was nice "escape" until Margo buzzed me told me she could not find anyone to be with Jax on Monday from 7am to 4pm. The night ended early for me. I sleptover at her house and I was with Jax on my "day off." When his grandmother got home from work I vroomed back to Salem. 95 was horrible. I remembered again why I decided to MOVE to Salem. When I was looking for a babysitter (still cannot find, what a luck) Margo said to me, only if Jax and I live close to her she can help more. Of course I felt like its my fault for being so far because I'm deaf?

At least I made it to Monday class (I missed last class last Wed, no babysitter). Then Lucas and Jax came home. I thought they would come on Tuesday night so I lost my alone time again. 3 of us had a nie time anyway we went mini hiking at the beach. It was too windy and cool. I felt bad for Lucas he haven't really hit on to the beach and get fried this summer. So he left that night.

Jax was off to Jessica's all day Wednesday. I did my laundry. I caught up with some readings but I was seriously tired. I had a nap. Then JuJu came to visit, we chatted about school. Then I vroomed to class. Got Jax home and paid Jessica $95

Thursday, Jax and I went grocery shopping and then we were fine with staying in the house.

I decided to clean out the storage. So much to give away, Jax small clothes and baby toys. I need some extra cash! Mmm.. We did some drawings and painting too. Soo messy.

Friday, of course a day after staying in the house, we gotta get out. Well my landlord been coming in the house to replace the water pipe and stuff all the week. Jax and I hit on the beach, we actually stayed for 2 1/2 hour. We napped when we got home. He kept on having accidents all the day, he relapsed!

And today, no real plan and it was a rainy day. So I took Jax to the kidstop where he could run around until he drop. We stayed there more than 2 hrs and pick up some Chinese on the way home. He zonkd out so I brought him to his bed. Landlord still working around so I ate and watched Napoleon Dymanite (again). I had to clean around the house some.

All the week I feel fed by the pollen so I start to take the Mucinex. Just today I start to feel irriated and frustrated. Bloody moon out soon. Exhausted and annoyed by my sinus/chest. Oh wait. I have not had a converstaion with anyone since Wednesday.

no internet..

So the upstairs moved out, no nearest internet that I can "borrow." Nearly a year now that my home don't have a regular cable and dsl as I cannot pay for it and they're not the proirity for living needs. I'd say we survive without them just fine, I don't want to have Jax to watch too much tv and I'd be pissed off with myself if I watch tv instead of being productive (schoolwork). Our tv cannot provide the basic channels so we have nothing but watch dvds. We been going to the library and rent dvds for free, 8 dvds a week, and must be on time or it will be $8 late fees each dvd.

Couple of weeks ago, Jax and I went home and Lucas house/cat sat. I asked him to return the dvds on time, that way he can rent movies he want to watch. But he didn't drop them off saying he don't know where the library is. If its another way around, he would tell me to google it and find it. Now we are stuck with $56 late fees. I felt soo upset about that.

Right now I cannot help it but wishing for relible internet and to be able to use video-phone to stay close in touch with the loved ones.. Rosey, Tai, Grandma, my aunts..

I'm typing this post from my Blackberry. Not sure if it will go through..